Love is a complex emotion that has been experienced and expressed by humans throughout history. It is a deeply human experience, and its effects can be seen in the bonds people form with one another, the boundless compassion they demonstrate, and the selfless sacrifices they are willing to make. Love involves various neurological processes in the human brain, but it is also much more than a biological phenomenon. It is a spiritual experience that exceeds the physical world.

I have always felt that the word “love” is too simple to bear the weight of its entire meaning.

The initial stages of romantic love often involve feelings of attraction and lust, which are influenced by hormones and brain chemicals. When two people of the same or opposite genders connect and find some kind of compatibility, sparks are bound to fly. When we are emotionally broken, the slightest touch of care and affection from someone definitely inches us towards attachment as the brain releases dopamine. Our film industry seems to think that constantly harassing someone for attention leads to love blossoming. The typical love story starts with a proposal, a declaration of undying love.

In my opinion, ideal love would be characterized by unconditional respect for an individual, immense value for the person’s presence in your life, unreserved care, understanding, and unbridled trust. It is the kind of relationship where nothing is seen as a sacrifice.

As the relationship progresses, a deeper emotional bond forms, leading to attachment. The hormone oxytocin plays a crucial role in this process. Often referred to as the “love hormone” or “bonding hormone,” oxytocin is released during activities that involve physical touch, intimacy, and emotional connection. It promotes trust and attachment between individuals, strengthening social bonds and stimulating feelings of love and care.

Can such deep emotional feelings bloom overnight? Can such deep feelings be forgotten in the blink of an eye?

In my understanding, anything less than the above is just immediate infatuation, bound to fade away over time. Sometimes such infatuations do lead to the seeds of ideal love being sown and nurtured, but more often than not, they simply fade away.

Ideal love is something that grows on you over time, often without you even realizing it. Once it takes hold, it’s a powerful and lasting emotion. You are stuck with it forever, regardless of the direction the relationship takes.

Does unconditional love alone drive relationship commitment and marriage?

Relationships that endure for decades require unconditional love and much more, including seamless intellectual and emotional connection, never-ending conversation, and open communication.

Love fading away over time is not inherently wrong; it’s a natural possibility as individuals evolve with circumstances and experiences. The interplay between biochemistry, emotions, and mental processes makes the phenomenon of love a captivating and ever-evolving field of study within neuroscience and psychology.

Love is not always easy. It can be messy, complicated, and even painful. But it is also one of the most beautiful and rewarding experiences that humans can have. Love is what makes us human, and it is what gives our lives meaning.

While scientists study the chemical aspects of love in the brain, poets describe its bittersweet, addictive, and fascinating nature. Love is a profound and mysterious part of human existence, and it is woven into the fabric of our lives.

Ultimately, love is like life; it needs freedom and space to bloom spectacularly, nurturing the connections that bring joy, meaning, and fulfillment to our journey through life.

PS: “To lose the urge to love is the biggest loss a human can suffer. Not knowing how to love is the biggest ignorance a person can claim. Our world can use a lot more love, and we all can afford a little more love, as it’s in abundance. Let’s be a believer and a giver. A giver of love, a giver of good vibes, and be harmonious!”

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